Do you ever feel like if you were raised in a different area, or with different friends that were involved in different things that you would be... different? I was thinking about this yesterday for some reason.
Probably because with this online dating stuff you have a chance to tell people you like whatever the heck you want. I'd like to think that I could have been super into art, maybe hiking/rock climbing, maybe in a band, maybe I'd even like dance? I was in gymnastics when I was younger and did pretty well...what if I would have kept doing that? While in high school we get sucked into groups and labels - I was apart of the 'soccer girls' and proud of it. I wouldn't trade my experiences in high school for anything. What if I decided to play soccer in college?
Not saying that I had offers, but maybe I could have found scouts.
What if....
THEN, I thought, that's what I have my whole life to experience. I can do whatever I want. I can try out snowshoeing and maybe I'll even love it. I've never been skiing or snowboarding in my entire life, maybe I should try it out?!
Why not?? Karlie and I went through a time where all we wanted to do was longboard down the canyon. It was something different, and my mom didn't entirely understand its appeal but I LOVED every second of it. We met a lot of guys and made a lot of friends.
I think the reason why it's a little hard to 'appear' as someone other than what we have previously been known for is that we don't want to give that part of us up. I love being considered a 'soccer girl,' but I'm also more than that. I'm a bowling nerd, a warped tour junkie, obsessed with sewing, crafting and scrapbooking and can't get enough of playing board/card games. Plus, there's even more to me that I haven't even discovered yet.
So guess what this year's theme is going to be?
Discovery:
Definition: To stretch my capacities and boundaries. The act of trying new things.
To expand likes and dislikes. To discover the awesome that's inside of me.


Yeah, I think it's going to be a good year. :)